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Actress, writer, and comedian Mindy Kaling has her hands full as the mother of two kids.
Since surprise pregnancy announcement her first in 2017, Kaling, who has never revealed the identity of her children’s father, has been busy keeping up with her little ones. Still, she helps raise daughter Katherine Swati, 5, and son Spencer Avu, 2, telling PEOPLE in 2021 that “it absolutely takes a village.” That village includes her nanny, her father Avu, and none other than Reese Witherspoon , whom Kaling has praised as “a source of great parenting advice.”
In her 2020 essay collection, Nothing Is Like I Imagine (Except Sometimes) , Kaling notes how influential her relationship with her mother, who passed away in 2012, was. to how she chose to raise Katherine and Spencer. “I think I finally realized that I have a child who will never know his grandmother, the closest person to me in the world,” she wrote . “I realized the one thing that would connect all three of our lives was our faith, this intangible thing that had been passed down to me and that I would now pass on to my daughter.”
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Kể từ khi họ sinh ra, Kaling đã giữ khuôn mặt của cả Katherine và Spencer khỏi ánh đèn sân khấu. “Tôi cảm thấy như tôi cũng có thể đợi cho đến khi chúng đủ lớn để chúng có thể cho tôi biết liệu chúng có muốn trở thành một phần của phương tiện truyền thông xã hội của tôi hay không,” Kaling nói riêng với NHÂN DÂN. Tuy nhiên, điều đó không có nghĩa là thực sự bám sát kế hoạch của cô ấy là dễ dàng. “Tôi giống như bất kỳ bậc cha mẹ nào mà tôi tự hào về những điều họ làm,” cô giải thích. “Tôi nghĩ chúng rất dễ thương, và tất nhiên, tôi muốn người khác nhìn thấy nó.”
In October 2022, just ahead of Halloween, Kaling introduced her two kiddos to Michael Jackson’s iconic “Thriller” music video. Katherine and Spencer weren’t scared of the zombies but rather intrigued by the choreography. Kaling captured the siblings dancing in front of the TV and shared the video on Instagram for her followers to gush over.
There’s one show that Kaling’s kids won’t be watching anytime soon: The Office.
“That show is so inappropriate now,” she said with a laugh on Good Morning America. “I think when they’re teenagers they’ll probably want to. Seems like a 15-year-old boy is the biggest fan of The Office now.”
Learn all about Katherine and Spencer below.
Katherine Swati Kaling, 5
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Kaling welcomed daughter Katherine Swati on Dec. 15, 2017, in Los Angeles. Katherine, who goes by the nickname Kit, was named after American actress Katherine Hepburn and Kaling’s late mother, Swati, who passed away from pancreatic cancer in 2012.
Though Kaling likes to keep details of her children’s lives private, she has shared some details about Kit’s playful personality. “I didn’t know how much bribery there was to being a parent,” she joked in a 2019 appearance on The Ellen Show. “Everytime I see her, she’s like Tony Soprano. She’s like in the mob, she’s smart.”
Later, the actress noted that she hasn’t seen much of herself in her daughter’s personality. “I was a very shy, diffident kid who was really suspicious of people and new situations,” she told PEOPLE. “And she is not at all. She’s very chatty,” adding that Kit had no problem trick-or-treating at strangers’ houses on Halloween.
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Kaling also shared that Kit “loves physical activity,” and is “a real tomboy.” In one adorable Instagram post, Kaling shared that Kit refused to take off her Kobe Bryant jersey for ballet class, leading her to rock the jersey over her tutu and tights. “I couldn’t be happier with her being into Kobe and the Lakers as a big Lakers fan myself,” Kaling told PEOPLE exclusively.
Kit has also taken to the role of big sis to her younger brother Spencer, but Kaling admitted it took some time for her to adjust.
“The 4-year-old is a little bit of a tattle tale,” the actress said during an appearance on Today. “I’m excited because she was a little indifferent to her younger brother and now he’s really useful to her because she can be like, ‘Mom, he ate a pretzel off the floor. Get him in trouble!’ “
“I’m like, ‘It’s okay. We don’t have to narc on our little brother. He’s not hurting anyone that he’s eating the pretzel off the floor,’ ” Kaling joked.
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Aside from her funny mom, Kit has the coolest godfather ever in Kaling’s Office costar and best friend B.J. Novak, who helps create family traditions for Kaling and her children by dressing up as Santa Claus every Christmas.
And while fans have long speculated that Novak could be the father of Kaling’s children, the actress told Marie Claire in August 2022 that the speculation “doesn’t bother” her.
“He’s the godparent to both my kids — and they have such a great relationship — and so far [the rumors haven’t] affected my happiness at all, it hasn’t affected my kids or BJ,” she shared.
Novak has shown that he’s a dedicated godfather. On Aug. 28, 2022, he joined Kaling and Kit on a visit to the Griffith Observatory in L.A. Kit, who wore black pajama pants adorned with yellow stars and crescent moons, came dressed for the occasion.
Kaling posted a few photos on Instagram of the trio’s late-night outing. One photo showed Novak holding his goddaughter as she pointed to something in the sky.
“My four year old had the best night of her life at our star party + Saturn spotting,” The Mindy Project star captioned the image carousel. “Thank you @bjnovak for sharing your passion for astronomy.”
Spencer Avu Kaling, 2
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Due to the COVID-19 pandemic, Kaling was able to hide her entire second pregnancy. In an appearance on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert in October 2020, she made the surprise announcement that she had given birth to a boy, Spencer Avu, in Los Angeles a month earlier on Sept. 3. Spencer, who occasionally goes by the nickname Spike, was named after actor Spencer Tracy and Kaling’s father, Avu, whom the actress has called “the hero of my family.”
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“I had Spencer during Covid and it was a strange isolated time, but the instant I saw him I knew he would make everything better,” Kaling shared in a sweet Instagram post for Spencer’s first birthday. “If you happen to make eye contact with Spencer, he lights up like you are old war buddies and he makes a beeline to you.”
In PEOPLE’s 2022 Beautiful Issue , Kaling opened up about Spencer’s budding personality. “He’s so full of joy and he’s not neurotic,” she said. “He’s not anxious at all. He’s just a boy who loves trucks and tires.”
Kaling added that a classic childhood game often intentionally crashes his toy cars and trucks. “My son will take one of his trucks and he’ll just like throw it across the room or hit someone in the head with it,” she explained. “It doesn’t hurt and he’ll go, ‘Uh oh,’ like it was a mistake and not something he did on purpose.”
In September 2022 , Kaling celebrated her son Spencer’s second birthday with a sweet video on Instagram in which the toddler stands up in his crib and waves and says “Hi” to his shadow on the wall.
“Happy 2nd birthday to my son Spencer, who is the human personification of a hug,” Kaling wrote next to the video. “I can’t describe the intense joy it is to be your mom. You remind this old cynical lady that the world is full of wonder, and fun can be found in the most mundane places. Here Spencer is greeting his friend, the morning shadow in his crib.”